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St Mary's Church, North Sydney
Weddings & Marriage
A covenant of love witnessed by God. Celebrate your marriage in the beauty and sacredness of St Mary's Church.
A Sacred Covenant
Marriage at St Mary's
Marriage is a covenant between husband and wife in which they invite God as a witness and partner. A wedding is a celebration which establishes this three-way bond — a sacrament of the Church that reflects Christ's love for his people.
Weddings are celebrated at St Mary's Church, 264 Miller Street, North Sydney — a beautiful historic church in the heart of the North Shore, offering a sacred and intimate setting for your most important day.
Our parish team is here to guide you through every step — from your first enquiry to the moment you walk down the aisle. We want your wedding day to be joyful, prayerful, and deeply meaningful.
Venue
St Mary's Church
Notice Required
Minimum 5 Months
For parish priests. If you have your own priest, less notice may be possible depending on availability.
Church Fee
$700
$450 for Planned Giving families. Priest sacramental fee: $450. Music fees arranged separately.
Your Journey
Six Steps to Your Wedding Day
From your first conversation to your wedding Mass, here is what to expect.
Arrange a Priest
You must arrange a Catholic priest to assist with marriage preparation, ceremony planning, and paperwork. If you do not have a priest, contact the parish office — a minimum of 5 months notice is required for parish priests.
Inform the Parish
Let the parish secretary know if either of you has been previously married, or if either belongs to an Eastern Catholic Church (Melkite, Maronite, Ukrainian) or an Orthodox Christian Church.
Book Your Date
All weddings are booked online by month. Click your preferred month below to view available dates and complete your reservation. Popular dates fill quickly — book early.
Marriage Preparation
Complete the required marriage preparation program with your priest. This includes FOCCUS or similar pre-marriage inventory, and sessions on communication, faith, and family life.
Plan the Ceremony
Work with your priest and our Music Director to plan the liturgy, readings, music, and vows. A rehearsal is typically scheduled for the evening before the wedding.
Your Wedding Day
Celebrate your marriage at St Mary's Church, 264 Miller St, North Sydney. The church provides a beautiful, sacred setting for this most important day of your lives.
Reserve Your Date
Book Your Wedding
All weddings are booked online by month. Select your preferred month to view available dates and complete your reservation.
Overseas Wedding? If you are planning to celebrate your marriage overseas, please complete the Marriage Registration Form with the parish and pay the $130 administration fee. This ensures your details are properly recorded in the parish register.Overseas Registration Form
Fees
Fees are subject to change. Please confirm current fees with the parish office at the time of booking.
Music
Music is one of the most beautiful elements of a Catholic wedding. Our Music Director will help you select sacred and classical pieces that honour the liturgy and reflect your love story.
All music must be approved by the Music Director to ensure it is appropriate for a Catholic wedding liturgy. Sacred music, hymns, and classical pieces are encouraged.
Common Questions
Wedding FAQs
A minimum of 5 months notice is required if you are requesting a priest from the parish. Popular dates (spring, autumn weekends) often book 12+ months ahead. We recommend securing your date as early as possible.
Yes. If you have your own Catholic priest who will officiate, you may book the church directly. Your priest will need to liaise with the parish regarding paperwork and logistics.
The church fee is $700. The priest's sacramental service fee is $450. For families contributing to the Parish Planned Giving Program, the church fee is reduced to $450. Music fees are separate and arranged with the Music Director.
All music must be approved by the Music Director to ensure it is appropriate for a Catholic wedding liturgy. Sacred music, hymns, and classical pieces are encouraged. Popular songs may be considered if they align with the dignity of the occasion.
Yes, with some guidelines. Photographers and videographers must remain discreet and not move around during key liturgical moments. Flash photography is not permitted during the ceremony. Your priest will discuss these details with you.
No, you do not need to be registered parishioners to marry at St Mary's. However, at least one of you must be a baptised Catholic, and you will need to complete the standard marriage preparation and paperwork.
A Catholic may marry a baptised non-Catholic Christian with a dispensation, or a non-baptised person with a dispensation from disparity of cult. Your priest will guide you through this process during preparation.
For environmental and safety reasons, confetti, rice, and flower petals are not permitted outside the church. Bubbles are a beautiful and welcome alternative.
Get in Touch
Wedding Enquiry
Fill in the form below and our parish team will respond within 2 business days to discuss your wedding plans.
Questions About Your Wedding?
Our parish team is here to help with every aspect of your wedding planning. Whether you need guidance on paperwork, music, or the ceremony itself — reach out and we will walk you through it.
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